are we destened to date the same men over and over again?
is it true do we have our own patterns and no matter what we do to change them we will always stay on them??
Gina-
"yes its true, ive dated guys who where tall, dark, handsome and had huge passions for cooking but also had huge sex drive, to much for me to handle. i tryed to change the men ive dated but we always ended rather quick. So its true we cant help it"
is this really true??
Wednesday, 23 November 2011
what do you see in him?
alot of women say that they only date guys because of their personalitly and not there apperence.
is this really true? or do are we just giving up on standered's and giving up on the idea that everyone can find that one hot spunk in the pack of guys to be with.
i admit i once used to be one of those women who said i would only go for guys because of their personality and i would even lie to myself that i didnt care about looks. durring the times when i was dating the guys only for personality i realised when i was kissing them, so forth, i wasnt thinking of them, i was thinking of the guy on a cover of romantic book i saw in the book shop.
a past date recently began to talk to me again after such a very long time, i first thing i had noticed was that according to him he had lost a few kg since we last saw each other, and the only things i could think of was 'eww eww eewwwww' its a bad thing i know, but then after a while of talking to him, not only did i used to ignore the apperence and try not to give a rats ass about how the guy looks, i realised i ignored the personality also, i realised when we were dating i ignored his whole persona, i day dreamed of charatchers in movies and so on...
there it was, i noticed i wasnt looking for a man for his personalitly or his apperence, i was just looking for a man.
All i can think of is thankgod i finally opened my eyes and saw the world for what it really is!!!
is this really true? or do are we just giving up on standered's and giving up on the idea that everyone can find that one hot spunk in the pack of guys to be with.
i admit i once used to be one of those women who said i would only go for guys because of their personality and i would even lie to myself that i didnt care about looks. durring the times when i was dating the guys only for personality i realised when i was kissing them, so forth, i wasnt thinking of them, i was thinking of the guy on a cover of romantic book i saw in the book shop.
a past date recently began to talk to me again after such a very long time, i first thing i had noticed was that according to him he had lost a few kg since we last saw each other, and the only things i could think of was 'eww eww eewwwww' its a bad thing i know, but then after a while of talking to him, not only did i used to ignore the apperence and try not to give a rats ass about how the guy looks, i realised i ignored the personality also, i realised when we were dating i ignored his whole persona, i day dreamed of charatchers in movies and so on...
there it was, i noticed i wasnt looking for a man for his personalitly or his apperence, i was just looking for a man.
All i can think of is thankgod i finally opened my eyes and saw the world for what it really is!!!
Wedding speech joke
Wedding joke
big: Love is like a dove, or a big fuzzy glove?dont use that i might have stolen it from a greeting card.
carrie: ...Dont be silly weddings are a serious thing....
big: then shove wont work
big: Love is like a dove, or a big fuzzy glove?dont use that i might have stolen it from a greeting card.
carrie: ...Dont be silly weddings are a serious thing....
big: then shove wont work
Get over it
how long does it take for a woman to get over a man?
Some women in big city believe that its half the time you were in the relationship for example, if you were together for 2years, it will take you 1year to get over him.
yet on the other hand some women believe in getting right back up on the horse straight away after the break up.
so which way works best? if you were in a relationship for 10years is 5years too long to wait until you begin dating again?
which way works?
Some women in big city believe that its half the time you were in the relationship for example, if you were together for 2years, it will take you 1year to get over him.
yet on the other hand some women believe in getting right back up on the horse straight away after the break up.
so which way works best? if you were in a relationship for 10years is 5years too long to wait until you begin dating again?
which way works?
payback
is it alright for a woman to get back at a man who done her wrong?
Subject facts - Man and woman dated.man ignored woman for weeks with no reason. mad is dicktator(added the tator to be nicer). man then had another. woman hurt baddly.
is it allowed for a woman to get the man back after all of that?
Subject facts - Man and woman dated.man ignored woman for weeks with no reason. mad is dicktator(added the tator to be nicer). man then had another. woman hurt baddly.
is it allowed for a woman to get the man back after all of that?
Thursday, 17 November 2011
Signs
Trying to tell if a guy likes you can be hard, obviously there males and there stupid most of the time, its just logic. but here are some signs that may help you figure out if he is interested in you or not. but dont base your friendship or what ever you are on these because every guy is different and some guys can be basically unable to read.
1.You look deeply into his eyes and he stares back into yours even for a short glance there is chemistry.
2. You say something remotely unfunny and he starts laughing as if you're the funniest girl ever.
3. He's always pleased to see you and probably misses you when you're gone. He does this by greeting you enthusiastically or smiling when you're there.
4. During an awkward silence he will always look at the ceiling or at his feet but really it is because he doesn't want it to look obvious that he was staring at you before.
5. He has a nick name for you. If he has a pet name for you like Honey then well done he recognises how sweet you are.
6. He calls you names. If he teases you it's that he likes it when you get mad because guys like fiery girls.
7. You do something because you don't care what anyone else says and he will also copy you as if you're the best at ideas.
8. Your body language matches his because he copies you and it is a real sign that he is thinking of you.
9. He will send you a text message on your mobile phone if you give him your number (definitely) now he has it he can arrange to meet you whenever he wants you.
10. He wants a snog so he will lean further and further in and then you should then look away on purpose so he kisses your cheek. You can decide to kiss him back or leave him waiting and he appreciates it more if you do wait.
11. If you are quite a bossy girl he will get used to you calling the shots. Now that means us girls are in control and we can make him play our stupid love game.
12. Flirt with him and he will flirt back. Sometimes his is not genuine but a sweet sensitive approach to a girl is only there when he isn't pleasing the crowd. If he likes you anyway he will hopefully ignore everyone else and be your prince charming.
13. There are people who spread the word that he likes you but the only person you can believe is him. Never get his friend to ask him out for you if he wants you so bad he will drop it into the conversation.
14. He says you're just friends but that means a lot more to a guy. If he wants to be your boyfriend he will be that 24/7 friend and a good shoulder to cry on. If you want to give him a friendly hug he is still being close to you and he will enjoy it.
15. You can never have too many compliments. He may hate your hair but he wants you to feel good about yourself so he will tell a white lie. The genuine way is if he touches it or completely shows a sudden interest in something.
16. He doesn't want you to come over to his house in fear of his mum, dad, brother and little sister giving him grief. He knows that you're not his girlfriend yet and can't face a meet the parents situation.
17. He will buy you really nice presents because you deserve it and will actually go shopping with you even if he hates visiting every clothes shop.
18. He sometimes phones you for no reason at all but to hear your voice and then he hates to hang up in fear of upsetting you.
19. He will call the next day or text you for sure if he wants to meet up again.
20. He may end up getting really drunk and confessing at a party now the worst thing to do is to humiliate him and reject him.
this info was from a website: http://sammypacker.tripod.com/signs.html
its not a bad site.
1.You look deeply into his eyes and he stares back into yours even for a short glance there is chemistry.
2. You say something remotely unfunny and he starts laughing as if you're the funniest girl ever.
3. He's always pleased to see you and probably misses you when you're gone. He does this by greeting you enthusiastically or smiling when you're there.
4. During an awkward silence he will always look at the ceiling or at his feet but really it is because he doesn't want it to look obvious that he was staring at you before.
5. He has a nick name for you. If he has a pet name for you like Honey then well done he recognises how sweet you are.
6. He calls you names. If he teases you it's that he likes it when you get mad because guys like fiery girls.
7. You do something because you don't care what anyone else says and he will also copy you as if you're the best at ideas.
8. Your body language matches his because he copies you and it is a real sign that he is thinking of you.
9. He will send you a text message on your mobile phone if you give him your number (definitely) now he has it he can arrange to meet you whenever he wants you.
10. He wants a snog so he will lean further and further in and then you should then look away on purpose so he kisses your cheek. You can decide to kiss him back or leave him waiting and he appreciates it more if you do wait.
11. If you are quite a bossy girl he will get used to you calling the shots. Now that means us girls are in control and we can make him play our stupid love game.
12. Flirt with him and he will flirt back. Sometimes his is not genuine but a sweet sensitive approach to a girl is only there when he isn't pleasing the crowd. If he likes you anyway he will hopefully ignore everyone else and be your prince charming.
13. There are people who spread the word that he likes you but the only person you can believe is him. Never get his friend to ask him out for you if he wants you so bad he will drop it into the conversation.
14. He says you're just friends but that means a lot more to a guy. If he wants to be your boyfriend he will be that 24/7 friend and a good shoulder to cry on. If you want to give him a friendly hug he is still being close to you and he will enjoy it.
15. You can never have too many compliments. He may hate your hair but he wants you to feel good about yourself so he will tell a white lie. The genuine way is if he touches it or completely shows a sudden interest in something.
16. He doesn't want you to come over to his house in fear of his mum, dad, brother and little sister giving him grief. He knows that you're not his girlfriend yet and can't face a meet the parents situation.
17. He will buy you really nice presents because you deserve it and will actually go shopping with you even if he hates visiting every clothes shop.
18. He sometimes phones you for no reason at all but to hear your voice and then he hates to hang up in fear of upsetting you.
19. He will call the next day or text you for sure if he wants to meet up again.
20. He may end up getting really drunk and confessing at a party now the worst thing to do is to humiliate him and reject him.
this info was from a website: http://sammypacker.tripod.com/signs.html
its not a bad site.
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